How to Write a Birth Plan That NHS Staff Will Respect (Free UK Template)
Introduction
You’ve probably heard you should write a birth plan — but many parents worry it will be ignored or dismissed. Sadly, that can happen if the plan is too long, unclear, or doesn’t fit the way the NHS works.
The good news? When done well, a birth plan can be a powerful tool for making your wishes clear, keeping everyone on the same page, and helping you feel calm and in control.
At Loucina Birthkeeping, we support families across London, Croydon and the UK to create birth plans that are clear, respected, and realistic — while still reflecting your personal choices. In this guide, you’ll learn:
- What a birth plan is (and isn’t).
- How NHS staff typically view birth plans.
- Exactly what to include (and what to leave out).
- How to phrase your preferences so they’re more likely to be honoured.
- How to download our free UK birth plan template.
What Is a Birth Plan — and Why It Matters
A birth plan is a written summary of your preferences for labour, birth, and immediate postpartum care. It’s not a guarantee — birth is unpredictable — but it’s a communication tool that:
- Helps staff quickly understand your wishes.
- Gives you and your birth partner a shared roadmap.
- Supports informed decision-making if plans change.
- Reduces anxiety by clarifying what matters most to you.
Even if birth doesn’t go as expected, having a clear plan helps you feel informed and respected.
How NHS Staff See Birth Plans
Midwives and doctors want safe births, but they work within hospital guidelines and time pressures. A birth plan that’s:
- Too long or technical may get skimmed.
- Aggressively worded can feel confrontational.
- Unrealistic (e.g., “absolutely no monitoring, no matter what”) may cause concern.
A clear, respectful, one-page plan is more likely to be read and followed.
What to Include in a UK Birth Plan
1. Your Basic Details
Name, due date, NHS number (optional), birth partner’s name/contact, allergies or important medical history.
2. Birth Environment
- Lighting, music, quiet voices, privacy preferences.
- Whether you’d like your partner to announce the baby’s sex or cut the cord.
- Photos or video — if allowed.
3. Labour Preferences
- Mobility — e.g., “I would like to stay upright and mobile where safe.”
- Monitoring — continuous or intermittent.
- Pain relief — what you prefer to start with (hypnobirthing, gas & air, water) and what to avoid if possible.
- Vaginal exams — if you want to limit or decline.
4. Birth Preferences
- Birthing positions (kneeling, side-lying, upright).
- Pushing preferences (e.g., spontaneous rather than coached).
- Water birth (if available).
- Partner involvement (catching the baby, cutting the cord).
5. After Birth
- Skin-to-skin contact.
- Delayed cord clamping.
- Placenta — e.g., if you want to keep it for encapsulation.
- Feeding choices (breastfeeding, formula, combination).
- Vitamin K — injection or oral.
6. Special Requests
- Language around trauma or anxiety (if relevant).
- Declining students/observers if privacy matters to you
- Cultural or religious needs.
Tips for Writing a Birth Plan NHS Staff Will Respect
- Keep it short — one page if possible.
Use bullet points or short sentences. - Be clear but flexible.
State preferences like: “I would prefer to avoid induction unless medically necessary” instead of “I refuse induction under any circumstances.” - Use positive, respectful language.
Staff respond better to “I would prefer” and “My wish is” than to “I demand.” - Print multiple copies.
Give one to your birth partner, keep one in your hospital bag, and give one to the midwife on arrival. - Discuss it early.
Share your plan with your midwife at antenatal appointments to flag any issues before labour. - Prepare for “what if” scenarios.
Include gentle preferences if plans change (e.g., “If a caesarean becomes necessary, I’d like skin-to-skin as soon as possible”).
How a Birthkeeper Helps With Your Birth Plan
As a birthkeeper, I don’t just help you write a plan — I help you understand your rights, NHS guidelines, and evidence so you can make informed choices. Together we can:
- Review hospital policies vs your options.
- Phrase preferences in a way staff respect.
- Plan for different scenarios while staying true to your values.
- Support you if your plan is challenged during labour.
This means you go in feeling calm and confident, not defensive or fearful.
Free UK Birth Plan Template
We’ve created a simple, professional birth plan template designed to be:
- NHS-friendly (clear, concise, respectful).
- Personalised but realistic.
- Easy for staff to read in busy environments.
Download your free UK birth plan template here.
Real Client Experience
“With my first baby, I handed over a three-page plan that no one looked at. With Loucina’s help, I rewrote it into one clear page and discussed it with my midwife beforehand. When labour came, staff read it and followed it — I finally felt listened to.”
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Sarah, South London
How Loucina Birthkeeping Can Support You
We serve families in London, Croydon, Surrey, Kent, Sussex and beyond with:
- Birth Planning Consultations — deep dive into your options.
- Full Maternity Packages — pregnancy, birth, and postnatal support.
- Virtual Packages — perfect if you live elsewhere in the UK.
- Free Resources — templates, checklists, letters.
Take the Next Step
💛 Want a birth plan that gets read — and respected — while keeping you in control?
- Download our free UK birth plan template.
- Book a consultation for expert help crafting and communicating your plan.
- Explore our maternity care packages for continuous, holistic support.
Hearing that you may need to be induced can bring up a lot of emotions — worry, confusion, or even disappointment if you’d hoped for a spontaneous labour. Many parents feel they’ve lost control when induction is recommended. But induction doesn’t have to be negative . With the right preparation and support, you can approach it feeling informed, calm and empowered — and still have a positive birth experience. At Loucina Birthkeeping , we help families across London and Croydon prepare for induction in a way that balances medical recommendations with your personal preferences. This guide will walk you through what induction means, how to prepare, and how to keep your birth experience positive and supported. What Is Induction of Labour? Induction is when your labour is artificially started using medical methods. NHS hospitals in London may recommend induction for reasons such as: Pregnancy going past 41–42 weeks. Concerns about baby’s growth or placenta function. Waters breaking without labour starting. High blood pressure or other medical conditions. Gestational diabetes or other risk factors. Common Induction Methods Membrane sweep: Stretching the cervix to release hormones. Prostaglandin pessary/gel: To soften the cervix and trigger contractions. Artificial rupture of membranes (ARM): Breaking your waters. Oxytocin drip: Hormone infusion to strengthen contractions. You have the right to accept or decline induction and ask for full information about risks and alternatives. Why Many Parents Struggle With Induction Induction can feel challenging because: You may be tied to hospital protocols (monitoring, IV drips). Contractions can feel more intense than spontaneous labour. Induction can mean less mobility if continuous monitoring is required. Some parents feel rushed or pressured. But induction can still be gentle, personalised and empowering with the right preparation. How to Prepare for a Positive Induction 1. Understand Your Rights & Options You can ask: “What are the benefits, risks, alternatives and what happens if I wait?” (Use the BRAIN decision tool: Benefits, Risks, Alternatives, Instinct, Nothing). Induction is an offer, not an order — you can decline or ask for more time if safe. 2. Know the Different Induction Methods Understanding each step helps you feel less fearful and more in control . Ask about starting gently (sweeps, pessaries) before moving to drips. Discuss mobility and monitoring options — can you walk or use a birth ball? 3. Prepare a Flexible Birth Plan Include: Your ideal environment (lighting, music, privacy). Movement and positioning even if monitored. Pain relief preferences — including natural methods and options for stronger relief if needed. Backup preferences if induction leads to caesarean. Use our free birth plan template to clarify your wishes. 4. Comfort Measures for Induced Labour Breathing and relaxation techniques (practice beforehand). TENS machine early on. Movement and upright positions if safe. Warm water (shower, bath, or birth pool if available). Support person or doula to help you stay calm. 5. Create a Positive Environment in Hospital Bring your own pillow, blanket, or essential oils. Dim lights or use LED candles. Play calming or empowering music. 6. Get Emotional & Advocacy Support Having a birthkeeper or doula can make a huge difference. We help you: Understand induction processes and policies. Advocate for breaks, mobility, and informed decision-making. Stay calm if plans change. How Loucina Birthkeeping Supports Induction Births We specialise in helping families feel empowered even when birth doesn’t go to plan . Antenatal Preparation In-depth consultations about induction options and NHS policies. Guidance for creating a realistic but personal birth plan . Emotional support if induction feels disappointing or scary. Birth Support Continuous emotional and practical support during induction and labour (if you book an in-person package). Advocacy to ensure your preferences are respected. Postnatal Debrief Processing your induction experience afterwards — whether it was positive or challenging. Real Story: Turning an Unwanted Induction Into a Positive Birth “When my waters broke at 40+4 and nothing happened, the hospital pushed induction. I was terrified. Loucina helped me understand my options and stay calm. Even though I had a drip, I felt informed, used my comfort tools, and had a really empowering birth.” — Emily, South London FAQs About Induction Birth in London Can I still have a water birth if I’m induced? Sometimes — if only prostaglandins are used and monitoring allows. Ask your hospital early. Can I move around with a drip? Often yes — many hospitals have portable monitors, but ask ahead. What if I want to decline induction? You have the right to refuse. Ask for risks, alternatives, and extra monitoring if you wait. Does induction hurt more? Contractions can feel stronger, but comfort measures and pain relief options help. Should I still hire a doula if I know I’ll be induced? Absolutely — induction can be unpredictable. A doula offers guidance, calm, and advocacy. How to Get Support for Your Induction Birth 💛 Induction doesn’t have to mean fear or loss of control. With the right preparation, it can still be calm and empowering. Book a birth planning consultation to prepare for induction and learn your options. Explore our maternity packages for full pregnancy, birth and postnatal support. Download our free birth plan template to start preparing today.
Introduction If you’re pregnant and want a calm, positive birth experience , you’ve probably come across the term doula — but what does a doula actually do? And is hiring one worth it if you already have NHS midwives? In Croydon and South London , more and more families are choosing doulas for personalised, continuous, non-clinical support during pregnancy, birth and the postnatal period. At Loucina Birthkeeping , we offer professional doula services — also called birthkeeping — to help you feel informed, respected and supported at every step. This guide explains exactly how doulas help, what’s included in our support packages, and why so many parents find a doula life-changing. What Is a Doula? A doula is a trained birth companion who provides emotional, practical and informational support during pregnancy, labour and the early weeks with a newborn. Doulas are non-clinical — they don’t replace midwives or doctors — but they play a vital role in: Helping you understand your options and rights . Offering comfort measures in labour (breathing, movement, massage). Supporting your birth partner so they feel confident too. Acting as a calm, reassuring presence through birth. Helping with early feeding and recovery postnatally. Many doulas also specialise in birth trauma support, high-risk advocacy, and holistic preparation . Doula vs Midwife — What’s the Difference? Midwives provide medical care — monitoring baby, doing checks, and handling complications. Doulas provide non-medical care — emotional support, information, and advocacy. Both can work together beautifully. Your midwife focuses on safety; your doula focuses on you as a whole person . Why Families in Croydon & South London Choose a Doula 1. Continuity of Care With NHS services stretched, many parents see different midwives at each appointment. A doula gives you one trusted companion who knows your story and stays with you. 2. More Time & Attention Appointments with a doula are long and unhurried — usually 60–90 minutes — so you can really explore your hopes, fears, and birth preferences. 3. Advocacy & Informed Choice We help you navigate NHS guidelines , ask the right questions, and feel confident saying yes or no to interventions. 4. Calmer Birth Experience Having a doula present has been linked to less fear, fewer interventions and better birth satisfaction .\ 5. Postnatal Support The first weeks with a newborn can feel overwhelming. Doulas help with feeding, emotional recovery, and practical adjustments . Doula Support at Loucina Birthkeeping We provide holistic, personalised doula care in Croydon, South London, Surrey, Kent, Sussex and Greater London . Our Core Packages Essentials Package Two long antenatal visits (60–90 mins). On-call from 38 weeks until birth. Continuous birth attendance. One postnatal visit. Unlimited phone/email support. Premium Package Three antenatal visits. Two postnatal visits. Access to online prepa ration courses. Ultimate Package Four antenatal visits. Four postnatal visits. Birth pool hire (for home or water birth). Colostrum harvesting support. Full online course access. Bespoke & Virtual Support Bespoke care for unique needs (e.g., birth after trauma, high-risk planning, extended postnatal help). Virtual doula package — same great support online for families across the UK. When to Book a Doula Most families book between 12 and 28 weeks , but it’s never too late — even if you’re in your third trimester, we can help you prepare and feel calm. Doula Support in Labour — What It Looks Like Early labour: Phone/video support for reassurance and practical tips. Active labour: Calm presence at home or hospital — helping you breathe, move, relax, and communicate with staff. Advocacy: Explaining options, supporting your choices, and helping you feel heard. Partner support: Guiding your partner so they feel confident and included. Postnatal Doula Care We also offer postnatal doula support — perfect for the first 6–12 weeks after birth. We can help with: Infant feeding (breast or bottle). Newborn care tips and routines. Emotional support and birth debrief. Light household tasks so you can rest and recover. Many parents say postnatal doula support was “a lifeline” in the early weeks. Real Story: Why One Croydon Family Chose a Doula “Our first birth felt rushed and clinical. With our second, we hired Loucina and it changed everything. We had time to plan, felt confident, and when labour got intense, she kept me calm and helped my partner know exactly what to do. It was the birth we dreamed of.” — Sophie & Dan, Croydon Doula Support: Costs & Value In London and South London , doula packages typically range from £1,200 to £3,600+ , depending on: Number of antenatal and postnatal visits. On-call period and birth attendance. Extras like birth pool hire and classes. Our packages are transparent and flexible , with payment plans available. FAQs About Doula Support in Croydon & London Do I need a doula if I have a supportive partner? Yes — doulas support both of you. Partners often feel more confident with guidance. Will the midwives mind if I bring a doula? Most welcome it! We work alongside NHS or private midwives to support you. Can I hire a doula for a planned caesarean? Absolutely. Doulas can help prepare, support during surgery (if allowed), and assist postnatally. Is a doula the same as a birthkeeper? Birthkeeping is a holistic approach to doula work — combining emotional, practical and advocacy support. Can I book late in pregnancy? Yes — even last-minute support can make a big difference. How to Book Doula Support With Loucina Birthkeeping Explore our doula packages — Essentials, Premium, Ultimate or Bespoke. Book a free discovery call to see if we’re the right fit. Reserve your due month early (we only take a limited number of clients for true continuity). 💛 Want calm, personalised support for pregnancy, birth and beyond? Book your free call today and let’s plan the empowering birth you deserve.
Intro duction Not everyone can access the birth support they want in person. Maybe you live somewhere with limited private maternity options. Maybe your ideal birthkeeper is fully booked locally. Or perhaps you’d simply prefer the flexibility and affordability of remote support. The good news? Virtual maternity support gives you access to expert, personalised care — wherever you are in the UK (or beyond). At Loucina Birthkeeping , we offer a Virtual Package designed to give parents the same knowledge, guidance and emotional support as our in-person care — but delivered online. Here’s how remote birthkeeping works , what’s included, and why it’s transforming pregnancy support for modern families. What Is Virtual Maternity Support? Virtual maternity support is non-clinical, holistic pregnancy and birth guidance delivered via: Video calls (Zoom or similar) Phone and messaging support Downloadable resources like birth plan templates and preparation guides It’s ideal for parents who want personalised guidance but can’t (or don’t want to) book in-person visits. Who Virtual Maternity Support Is For Virtual birthkeeping works beautifully if you: Live outside London and want high-quality holistic care . Have limited local private maternity options. Prefer flexibility around busy work or family schedules. Want affordable private support without travel costs. Feel confident about labour logistics but want expert guidance and advocacy prep . Need emotional support after a previous traumatic birth or high-risk label. What’s Included in Loucina Birthkeeping’s Virtual Package Our Virtual Maternity Care Package is designed to feel as personal and empowering as in-person support . 1. In-Depth Antenatal Sessions Long video consultations (60–90 minutes each) tailored to your pregnancy. Birth planning, NHS guideline navigation, advocacy coaching, comfort measures and emotional preparation. Support for specific concerns (VBAC, high-risk, birth trauma). 2. Ongoing Communication Unlimited WhatsApp/email support for questions between sessions. Encouragement and clarity when unexpected appointments or test results arise. 3. Birth Planning Resources Access to our professional birth plan template and custom preparation guides. Help wording preferences to be clear and respected by NHS staff. 4. Support for Birth Partners Coaching for your birth partner so they know how to advocate and comfort effectively . Practical tips for early labour at home and navigating hospital policies. 5. Postnatal Check-In Virtual session after birth to process your experience , support feeding, and help with recovery. Benefits of Virtual Maternity Support Personalised, Expert Care Anywhere No matter where you live — from London suburbs to rural Scotland — you can access specialist birthkeeping expertise . Flexible and Convenient Fit sessions around work or childcare. No travel, no waiting rooms, no postcode restrictions. Affordable Alternative Virtual support costs less than full in-person packages while still giving you expert guidance. Continuity & Advocacy Even if your NHS appointments feel rushed, you’ll have someone who knows you and helps you prepare. Confidence for Birth Partners Your partner learns how to support you practically and emotionally , helping both of you feel ready. How Virtual Support Fits With NHS Care Many parents use our virtual package alongside: NHS midwife appointments for medical checks. Local antenatal classes (if desired). Planned home, birth centre or hospital births. Virtual birthkeeping doesn’t replace clinical care — it wraps around the system , filling the gaps in time, attention and advocacy. Common Concerns About Virtual Support — Answered “Will it feel impersonal?” No. Our sessions are private, unhurried video calls where we can really connect — many parents say it feels surprisingly personal and warm. “What if I need help during labour?” While we can’t physically attend, we can coach your birth partner and provide real-time reassurance by message or call if possible. “Can virtual support help if I’m high risk?” Yes. We provide evidence-based guidance, birth planning and advocacy coaching , even if you’re consultant-led. “Do I need in-person visits as well?” Not necessarily — but some parents combine a single in-person session with a mostly virtual package for the best of both worlds. Real Story: Empowered Despite the Distance “We live in rural Wales and I wanted a birthkeeper but couldn’t find anyone local. Loucina’s virtual support was amazing — long video calls, a solid birth plan, and guidance when the hospital tried to push induction. Even from miles away, I felt supported and confident.” — Lucy, UK Practical Tips for Getting the Most From Virtual Maternity Care Book Early (Ideally by 20–24 Weeks) This gives time to build a relationship and plan thoroughly. Prepare Questions Before Sessions Make the most of your time — no rushed midwife appointments here! Share Your Birth Partner’s Contact We can help them feel confident and prepared. Request Your NHS Birth Notes Early Having them helps with personalised planning. Create a Calm Space for Calls A cup of tea, notebook, and quiet time make sessions more productive. How Loucina Birthkeeping Can Support You Virtually Virtual Maternity Package — full antenatal support, birth planning, partner coaching, postnatal check-in. One-Off Online Consultations — perfect for birth trauma, high-risk guidance, or birth plan review. Free Resources — birth plan templates and checklists . Based in London but helping parents across the UK and internationally through trusted, evidence-based, non-clinical care. FAQs Is virtual support enough if I want a home birth? Yes — we’ll help you prepare and advocate with your NHS or private midwives. Can you attend my birth virtually? We can be available by call or message for reassurance and quick guidance, though not as a substitute for medical advice. Does virtual support include postnatal help? Yes — our package includes a postnatal debrief session to check in on emotions, feeding and recovery. Can I upgrade to in-person support later? If you’re within our travel area and space allows, yes — ask early as slots fill up fast. Next Steps 💛 Want expert, personalised maternity care — wherever you are? Explore our Virtual Maternity Package . Book a free discovery call to see if virtual support is right for you. Download our free birth plan template to get started today. Distance shouldn’t stop you from feeling prepared, informed and confident about your birth.
Introduction Warm water, soft lighting, and a sense of weightlessness — many parents say labouring or birthing in water is one of the most calming ways to bring a baby into the world. If you’re in London or Croydon , you might be considering a water birth but wondering: Is it safe? Can I do it at home or hospital? How do I prepare? At Loucina Birthkeeping , we support families who want a safe, empowering water birth — whether at home or in a hospital pool. This guide covers everything you need to know about water birth, from safety to preparation. What Is a Water Birth? A water birth means you labour — and sometimes give birth — in a deep pool of warm water . Some people only use the pool during early labour for pain relief, while others stay in the water to give birth completely. Water births can take place: At home — with a hired or purchased pool. In a hospital or birth centre — if your chosen unit offers birthing pools and staff are trained. Why People Choose Water Birth: 1. Natural Pain Relief Warm water helps relax muscles and may reduce the need for epidural or other medication . Many find contractions feel gentler in water. 2. Calm, Gentle Environment A pool creates a private, cocoon-like space . Dimming lights and playing music can make labour feel safe and peaceful. 3. Freedom to Move Water supports your body weight, making it easier to change positions and stay comfortable. 4. Smoother Transition for Baby Babies go from warm fluid in the womb to warm water in the pool — a gentler sensory change . 5. Potential for Fewer Interventions Some research shows water birth may lower the chance of episiotomy and reduce stress hormones. Is Water Birth Safe? For healthy, low-risk pregnancies , water birth is generally considered safe. NHS trusts across London routinely offer it in midwife-led units. You might be advised against water birth if you have: High blood pressure or pre-eclampsia. Active infections (e.g., herpes). Excessive bleeding or complications. Certain high-risk conditions requiring continuous monitoring. Even if labelled “high risk,” you can discuss your options — some families still use water for early labour before leaving the pool if needed. Water Birth at Home vs Hospital Home Water Birth Pros: Full control over environment, privacy, comfort, easy to move to bed afterwards. Cons: You’ll need to hire/set up a pool and plan for possible transfer if complications arise. At Loucina Birthkeeping , our Ultimate Package includes birth pool hire , plus guidance on safe set-up and use. Hospital or Birth Centre Water Birth Pros: Pool is provided and set up, immediate access to clinical help if needed. Cons: Availability varies; some London units have limited pools or may close access if busy. Policies can also restrict use (e.g., continuous monitoring requirements). How to Prepare for a Water Birth: 1. Discuss Early With Your Midwife Tell your NHS team you want a water birth. Ask about: Your hospital’s pool availability and booking process. Policies for monitoring and getting out if complications occur. 2. Hire or Reserve a Pool if at Home Book early (from ~36 weeks). Make sure you have a large enough pool , a clean hose, and a water thermometer. Test filling it before labour to check timing and water supply. 3. Prepare Your Birth Space Warm, private room with space for midwives to move around. Towels, waterproof sheets, bucket or pump for emptying pool. Dim lighting, relaxing music or candles. 4. Learn Comfort Techniques Even with water, techniques like breathing, visualisation, and upright positions can make labour easier. 5. Have a Plan B Water birth is beautiful but unpredictable. Sometimes you’ll need to leave the pool — for monitoring, medication, or birth complications. Have a flexible mindset. How a Birthkeeper Supports Water Birth At Loucina Birthkeeping, we: Help plan your water birth — safety, comfort, and backup plans. Provide birth pool hire (Ultimate Package) with guidance on use. Offer advocacy if hospital staff question your pool use. Teach comfort techniques that work beautifully in water. Provide continuous emotional support at home or hospital. Many parents say having a birthkeeper meant their water birth felt calm, safe and truly respected. Real Story: Calm Water Birth at Home “I dreamed of a peaceful water birth but felt unsure after my first hospital experience. Loucina explained safety, helped me hire a pool, and guided me through labour with calm reassurance. It was everything I hoped for.” — Leanne, South London Tips for a Positive Water Birth Experience Keep the pool warm (36–37°C) but not too hot. Stay hydrated and eat light snacks if allowed. Get in when labour is established — too early can slow things down. Have plenty of towels and blankets for after the birth. Trust your body — move, float, kneel or squat as you wish. FAQs About Water Birth in London Can I have a water birth if I’m induced? Sometimes — depends on the induction method and your hospital’s policy. Ask early. Can I use a birth pool if I’m high risk? Often you can labour in water but may need to leave the pool for birth if continuous monitoring is required. How much does home pool hire cost? Usually £100–£300. Our Ultimate Package includes birth pool hire . Do hospitals always have pools? Most midwife-led units in London do, but availability isn’t guaranteed. Ask your hospital about booking and backups. Is water birth more painful? Most people say water makes labour more manageable and relaxing — but pain relief needs vary. How to Plan Your Water Birth With Loucina Birthkeeping Explore our Ultimate Maternity Package — includes birth pool hire and personalised prep. Book a birth planning consultation to discuss hospital policies or home birth set-up. Contact us for a free discovery call to talk about your water birth goals. 💛 Want a calm, empowering water birth in London or Croydon? We’ll help you prepare, feel safe, and enjoy the gentle experience you dream of.
Your ultimate UK third trimester checklist: birth prep, hospital bag, mindset, and home setup tips for a calm, confident labour and postpartum. Introduction The third trimester can feel like a whirlwind. Your body is changing, appointments increase, and there’s a constant sense that something big is about to happen — but you’re not always sure what to do next. A clear checklist can turn this busy, emotional time into something calm and manageable . It’s not just about buying baby clothes — it’s about preparing your body, mind, home and birth plan so you can approach labour with confidence. At Loucina Birthkeeping , we support families across London, Croydon and beyond to prepare practically and emotionally for birth. This comprehensive third trimester checklist will help you feel organised and ready — no matter what kind of birth you’re planning. Your Third Trimester at a Glance Weeks 28 to 40+ are a time to: Finalise birth plans and preferences. Pack hospital or home birth supplies . Prepare your body and mind for labour. Organise postnatal support . Rest and bond with your baby before birth. Use this checklist as a flexible guide — not everything will apply to everyone, but it will help you feel in control and prepared . Medical & Practical Preparation: Book Your Remaining Appointments Midwife or consultant visits (know when they’re scheduled). Extra scans or tests if needed. Vaccinations offered in the third trimester (e.g., whooping cough). Finalise Your Birth Plan Use our free birth plan template . Discuss with your midwife and birth partner. Consider “Plan B” scenarios (induction, caesarean). Understand Your Birth Rights Learn about NHS policies and informed consent. If you’re in London, check your local trust guidelines (e.g., home birth availability). Consider a birth planning consultation for personalised support. Check Travel & Contact Details Know your hospital or birth centre phone number and route. Plan backup routes (London traffic can surprise you). Arrange childcare for older kids or pets. Preparing Your Body Stay active: Gentle walking, yoga, or swimming. Practice birth positions: Kneeling, leaning forward, using a birthing ball. Perineal massage: From 34 weeks (if comfortable) to reduce tearing risk. Fuel well: Balanced meals, hydration, iron-rich foods. Pelvic floor exercises: Daily — helps with birth and recovery. If you’re unsure where to start, consider a birth preparation session — we teach comfort measures, positioning, and breathing techniques. Preparing Your Mind Learn about labour: Hypnobirthing, antenatal classes, or private sessions. Address fears: Journalling or talking them through with a birthkeeper. Visualise your ideal birth: Calm breathing, positive affirmations. Create a birth playlist: Music that soothes or empowers you. Feeling informed and mentally prepared reduces fear and can help labour progress naturally . Packing Your Hospital or Home Birth Bag Even if you plan a home birth, pack a bag — just in case of transfer. For You Loose nightdress or birth outfit. Nursing bras and pads. Dressing gown and slippers. Toiletries (lip balm, hair ties, toothbrush). Snacks & drinks (labour can be long). Water bottle with straw. Phone charger (long cable). Going-home outfit. For Baby Vests and sleepsuits (3–5). Nappies & wipes. Hat and blanket. Car seat (if hospital birth). Muslins. Extras for Comfort Essential oils or sprays (if you like). Pillows from home. LED candles or fairy lights. TENS machine (if using). Birth pool equipment (if hiring). Setting Up Your Home Prepare feeding area — comfy chair, water, snacks, muslins. Set up baby sleep space (cot, Moses basket or bedside crib). Stock up on postnatal supplies — pads, comfy underwear, peri bottle. Cook and freeze easy meals . Arrange help for chores or older kids (family, friends, or postnatal doula support). Planning Postnatal Support Decide if you’d like a postnatal doula for feeding, recovery, and household help. Line up friends or relatives to visit when you feel ready (not immediately). Consider joining local or online postnatal support groups . At Loucina Birthkeeping, we offer postnatal doula packages in London & Croydon for practical and emotional support in the early weeks. Self-Care & Emotional Wellbeing Schedule time to rest and nap . Connect with your partner or support network. Practice relaxation techniques daily. Plan small treats — a massage, pedicure, or time with friends. Set gentle boundaries around visitors after birth. Pregnancy is demanding — you deserve space to look after yourself too. Real Client Experience “I felt so overwhelmed in my third trimester with my first baby. Loucina helped me break things down into steps — birth plan, home prep, mindset work. When labour came, I felt ready and calm.” — Hannah, Croydon How Loucina Birthkeeping Can Help We support families in London, Croydon, Surrey, Kent, Sussex and nearby areas with: Birth Planning Consultations — clear, personalised guidance. Full Maternity Care Packages — pregnancy, birth & postnatal support. Postnatal Doula Packages — daytime or overnight care after birth. Virtual Support — perfect if you’re elsewhere in the UK. Free Resources — birth plan templates & checklists . FAQs Do I need a birth plan if I’m not sure what I want? Yes — even a simple plan helps staff know your preferences. What if I go into labour early and haven’t finished prep? Don’t panic — you can still have a positive experience. Focus on essentials: bag packed, birth partner briefed, key preferences written down. Is it worth hiring a birthkeeper for the third trimester only? Absolutely. Even late in pregnancy, tailored support can reduce fear and help you feel ready. Can you help if I’m high risk? Yes. We specialise in helping parents labelled high risk feel informed and confident. Your Calm, Confident Third Trimester Starts Here 💛 Want personalised help preparing for birth — without overwhelm or endless Googling? Download our free third trimester checklist & birth plan template . Book a birth planning consultation for tailored support. Explore our maternity care packages for continuous, holistic care. You deserve to enter birth feeling prepared, informed and calm .
Home Birth vs Hospital Birth in London: Pros, Cons & How to Decide What’s Right for You Planning your baby’s arrival? Compare home birth vs hospital birth in London, explore pros and cons, safety, and how to make the right choice for you. Introduction One of the biggest decisions you’ll make during pregnancy is where to give birth . In the UK — and especially in London — you usually have three main options: home birth , birth centre , or hospital delivery . For many parents, this choice feels confusing. You might wonder: Is home birth safe? Will I have pain relief options at home? What if something goes wrong? Others fear hospitals but worry they’ll be judged for choosing home birth. At Loucina Birthkeeping , we support families across London and Croydon to make informed, confident choices about their birth setting. This guide will help you understand the pros and cons of home vs hospital birth , so you can decide what’s right for you. Your Birth Options in London Home Birth: You give birth in your own home, supported by NHS community midwives or (if you hire them) private midwives, and a birthkeeper or doula if you choose. Hospital Birth: You birth on a labour ward with access to doctors, anaesthetists, and surgical care if needed. Birth Centre: A midwife-led unit (often within or next to a hospital). These feel more homely but don’t have obstetricians on site. This article focuses mainly on home vs hospital birth — the two most contrasting options. Home Birth: Pros and Cons Benefits of Home Birth 1. Comfort and Familiarity Being at home helps many people feel calm and safe . You can move freely, eat, use your own bathroom, and create the environment you want (music, lighting, privacy). 2. Lower Intervention Rates Research shows planned home births for low-risk pregnancies often mean fewer inductions, episiotomies, and caesareans . 3. Continuity and Autonomy Home birth can give you more control over your body and choices . NHS home birth midwives usually work in small teams, and you can also hire a private midwife for even more personalised care. 4. Immediate Bonding You stay with your baby, partner and family right away — no separation or transfer to a postnatal ward. Things to Consider 1. Transfers to Hospital About 40% of first-time parents planning home birth and 10% of those with previous births transfer to hospital, usually for slow labour or pain relief, not emergencies. 2. Limited Pain Relief Options At home, you can use gas & air, water, hypnobirthing, and natural comfort measures — but no epidural . 3. Emergency Support Midwives carry life-saving equipment, but if a rare serious complication happens, you’ll need to transfer by ambulance. 4. NHS Availability Some London trusts occasionally suspend home birth services if staff shortages occur. Hospital Birth: Pros and Cons Benefits of Hospital Birth 1. Immediate Access to Medical Support If complications arise, doctors, obstetricians and anaesthetists are on site. Epidurals and surgical care (like emergency caesarean) are available quickly. 2. Pain Relief Variety Hospitals offer epidurals, stronger medications, and continuous monitoring if needed. 3. Perceived Safety Some people simply feel safer knowing advanced help is nearby. Things to Consider 1. Higher Intervention Rates Hospital births are statistically more likely to involve inductions, instrumental delivery (forceps/ventouse), or caesarean. 2. Less Privacy & Continuity You may see multiple staff due to shift changes. Shared wards can feel noisy and impersonal. 3. Policy Pressure Hospitals often follow strict protocols that may not suit everyone. You might feel pressured to accept interventions . 4. Travel & Environment Driving to hospital in labour can be stressful; hospital settings may feel unfamiliar or clinical. Safety: What the Evidence Says Low-risk pregnancies: Research (including the UK’s Birthplace Study ) shows planned home birth is as safe as hospital birth for healthy women having their second or later baby . First babies: Home birth slightly increases the risk of needing a hospital transfer or emergency help, though absolute risk remains low. High-risk pregnancies: Hospital is usually recommended, but you still have the right to decline and birth at home with full information. The safest choice depends on your health, pregnancy history, and preferences . Discuss with your midwife — and consider extra holistic support for emotional confidence. How Holistic Support Helps You Decide At Loucina Birthkeeping , we don’t tell you what to choose — we help you make an informed decision that feels right. This includes: Exploring your medical history and what “risk” means for you. Reviewing NHS guidelines and birth statistics. Helping you write a birth plan tailored for home or hospital . Preparing for what if scenarios — including smooth hospital transfer plans. Providing continuous emotional support whichever path you take. Water Birth — A Popular Middle Ground Many parents planning home birth in London use a birth pool for comfort and natural pain relief. You can also have a water birth in some hospitals and birth centres. At Loucina Birthkeeping, we include birth pool hire in our Ultimate Package and can help you prepare for a safe, supported water birth. Real Story: Finding Confidence in the Right Place “I wanted a home birth but was told I was safer in hospital because of my age. Loucina helped me understand the evidence and my rights. We planned a hospital birth that still felt calm and personal — with dim lighting, minimal intervention, and my choices respected. It was healing.” — Rachel, South London Practical Tips for Deciding Between Home and Hospital Birth Ask for your local trust’s statistics — transfer rates, home birth support availability. Tour both settings if possible — visit your hospital or birth centre and visualise home. Write two birth plans — one for your ideal scenario and one for if things change. Consider travel time — especially in London traffic. Think about pain relief preferences — epidurals require hospital birth. Seek support early — a birthkeeper can help you navigate pressure and stay confident. How Loucina Birthkeeping Can Support Your Birth Choice Maternity Care Packages — Essentials, Premium, Ultimate (with water birth pool hire). Bespoke Planning — tailored support for complex decisions or previous trauma. Consultations — one-off sessions to plan your home or hospital birth. Virtual Options — perfect if you’re outside our travel range. We serve London, Croydon, Surrey, Kent, Sussex and nearby areas — and offer virtual support UK-wide . Frequently Asked Questions Is home birth free in London? Yes — NHS midwives usually attend planned home births for low-risk pregnancies. Can I have a home birth if I’m high risk? Yes, you have the right to choose, but discuss safety and have a clear plan. Do I need a birthkeeper for a home birth? Not required, but many families value the continuity, emotional support, and advocacy . Can I switch plans if I change my mind? Yes — you can transfer to hospital during labour if you want more pain relief or if safety concerns arise. What if the NHS suspends home birth services? You can hire a private midwife or plan hospital birth with extra holistic support. Next Steps 💛 Still unsure whether home or hospital birth is right for you? Book a birth planning consultation to explore your options with expert support. Explore our maternity care packages — Essentials, Premium, Ultimate. Download our free birth plan template to start clarifying your preferences. At Loucina Birthkeeping, we’ll walk beside you — whatever you choose — so you feel safe, respected and confident .
Birth is often described as magical — but for many parents, it’s anything but. Maybe you felt unheard, frightened, pressured, or powerless. Perhaps things moved so quickly you barely understood what was happening. You might even feel guilty for struggling if your baby is healthy but the birth left you shaken. If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Birth trauma is more common than people realise, and it’s not just about emergencies — it’s about how you felt during the experience. At Loucina Birthkeeping , we support families in London, Croydon and the surrounding areas with gentle, holistic help to process birth trauma . Whether your birth happened months or years ago, healing is possible. What Is Birth Trauma? Birth trauma is the emotional and psychological distress caused by a difficult or frightening birth experience . It can happen after: Unexpected interventions (induction, forceps, emergency caesarean). Feeling pressured or ignored when making decisions. Loss of control or consent. Long, painful labour without adequate support. Complications threatening you or your baby’s health. Poor communication from staff. Previous trauma triggered during birth. You don’t need to have had a medical emergency to experience trauma — feeling powerless or unheard is enough . Signs You May Be Experiencing Birth Trauma Flashbacks or nightmares about the birth. Anxiety or panic when thinking about hospitals or pregnancy. Feeling numb, detached, or unable to bond with your baby. Guilt or self-blame about the birth. Avoiding conversations or media about birth. Fear of future pregnancies or feeling you “can’t do it again.” If these sound familiar, know that your feelings are valid and you deserve support. How Holistic Support Helps Healing Holistic trauma support looks at your whole self — mind, body, emotions and future goals . At Loucina Birthkeeping, we combine: 1. Birth Story Debriefing We gently revisit your birth in a safe, non-judgmental space . This isn’t about re-traumatising — it’s about making sense of what happened and reclaiming your story. 2. Birth Notes Review If you want, we can request and review your hospital or midwifery notes with you. Understanding what happened medically can help fill gaps and reduce fear or confusion. 3. Emotional Processing We use calm, gentle techniques to help you work through anger, grief, guilt or fear. Simply being listened to by someone who understands birth can be profoundly healing. 4. Planning for the Future If you’re considering another pregnancy, we help you rebuild confidence and plan for a better birth next time — including advocacy, choice and emotional preparation. 5. Ongoing Support You can book a one-off consultation or include trauma healing within our maternity care packages if you’re pregnant again. Why Choose Holistic Trauma Support (Instead of Just “Moving On”) Many parents are told: “At least the baby’s healthy — move on.” But suppressing trauma can lead to: Postnatal depression or anxiety. Fear of future pregnancies. Relationship strain. Persistent guilt or anger. Holistic trauma support gives you space to validate your feelings, understand your experience, and regain trust in your body and decisions . Real Story: From Fear to Empowerment “After a traumatic first birth, I couldn’t even think about getting pregnant again without panic. Loucina listened without judgment, explained my notes, and helped me rebuild confidence. When I did have my second baby, I felt informed and calm. It was healing.” — Claire, South London How Loucina Birthkeeping Supports Birth Trauma in London Past Birth Trauma Consultations — safe, private sessions to process and heal. Birth Notes Review — understanding medical language and events. Bespoke Ongoing Care — if planning another pregnancy, we integrate healing with preparation. Virtual Options — if you’re outside London but want support online. Our approach is gentle, non-clinical and evidence-based — combining emotional care with clear, factual information. Tips for Healing Birth Trauma at Home Acknowledge your feelings — they’re valid, even if others dismiss them. Write your story — journalling can help process memories. Talk to someone safe — a partner, friend, therapist or birthkeeper. Request your birth notes — facts can reduce confusion and self-blame. Seek professional help if anxiety or flashbacks persist. Holistic support, therapy, or EMDR can help. Give yourself time — healing isn’t linear. Frequently Asked Questions Do I need a medical referral to get trauma support? No. You can book directly with us. Is this the same as therapy? No. We’re not psychotherapists — we offer emotional support, birth education and advocacy. We can signpost you to therapy if needed. Can you help if my birth was years ago? Yes. It’s never too late to heal. Will you judge me if I had interventions? Never. Our approach is non-judgmental and fully supportive. Can you help me plan another birth after trauma? Yes. We offer trauma healing plus maternity planning consultations to rebuild confidence. How to Book Birth Trauma Support Schedule a Past Birth Trauma Consultation — available in-person (London & Croydon) or online. Explore bespoke maternity packages if you’re pregnant again and want ongoing support. Contact us for a free discovery call to discuss your needs. 💛 Your feelings matter. Your story matters. Healing is possible. Book a gentle birth trauma consultation today .
Introduction Hearing the words “high risk” during pregnancy can feel overwhelming. Suddenly, you may be booked for more scans, extra monitoring, and medicalised plans that don’t feel like your vision of birth. Many parents worry they’ve lost the right to choose how their baby arrives. But being labelled high risk doesn’t mean you have to surrender your autonomy. With the right holistic support , you can stay informed, calm and empowered — while still keeping medical safety in mind. At Loucina Birthkeeping , we support families across London, Croydon and the surrounding areas who’ve been told their pregnancy is high risk. We help you understand your options, ask the right questions, and create a birth plan that feels safe and aligned with your values. What Does “High Risk” Really Mean? The term high risk can sound alarming, but in maternity care it’s often used broadly. You might be labelled high risk for reasons such as: Age (over 35 or under 18). Previous caesarean or complicated birth. Carrying twins or more. Medical conditions (e.g., high blood pressure, diabetes, thyroid issues). Concerns about baby’s growth or positioning. Previous pregnancy loss or preterm birth. BMI outside the “average” range. Sometimes these risk factors mean more monitoring , but they don’t automatically mean a highly medicalised birth or caesarean. Many parents discover that “high risk” is a policy label , not a guarantee of complications. Why Holistic Support Matters in a High-Risk Pregnancy Being high risk can trigger a cascade of appointments, tests and recommendations — often with little time to ask questions. Holistic support offers: 1. Time to Understand Your Risk Hospital consultations can be rushed. A birthkeeper gives you unhurried space to go through: What the risk actually means. What the evidence says. Which recommendations are optional vs required. 2. Help Navigating NHS Policies Every trust has its own guidelines. Holistic support helps you: Understand your legal rights and informed consent. Prepare questions for consultants. Plan for what if scenarios while keeping your preferences clear. 3. Emotional Support High-risk labels can bring fear, disappointment or guilt . Continuous, compassionate support helps reduce anxiety and build confidence. 4. Preparation for Different Birth Outcomes Sometimes plans must adapt — induction, caesarean, or extra monitoring. A birthkeeper helps you prepare practically and emotionally so changes feel less overwhelming. How Loucina Birthkeeping Supports High-Risk Pregnancies: Specialist Consultations We offer one-to-one sessions to explore: Your specific risk factors and what they mean. NHS and NICE guidelines. Birth planning options — including alternatives if you decline certain interventions. Coping strategies if things change. Ongoing Pregnancy Care If you book a package, you’ll get: Longer antenatal visits (60–90 mins). On-call support from 38 weeks. Birth attendance for emotional and practical help. Postnatal care to support recovery after complex births. Advocacy When You Need It Most We help you: Communicate clearly with consultants and midwives. Ask the right questions. Remain involved in decision-making even during emergencies. Holistic Tools for Confidence Mindset coaching for fear and anxiety. Birth preparation (comfort measures, positions, breathing). Practical planning (bag prep, postnatal support, feeding help). Real Story: Reclaiming Choice in a High-Risk Pregnancy “At 39, with high blood pressure, I was told I had no choice but induction at 39 weeks. Loucina helped me understand the actual risks and my options. We made a plan that felt safe but respected my wishes. I ended up having a calm, supported birth at hospital — and felt in control for the first time.” — Maria, South London Benefits of Combining Holistic and Medical Care Some parents think holistic support means avoiding medical help. In reality, the best results often come from combining both : Midwives and doctors ensure clinical safety. Holistic care ensures your mental, emotional, and practical needs are met. You feel respected and informed — not just processed by a system. Tips for Navigating a High-Risk Pregnancy in London Ask for full explanations. Don’t be afraid to say: “Can you explain the evidence behind that recommendation?” Request continuity where possible. Ask if you can see the same consultant midwife or specialist. Prepare a flexible birth plan. Include preferences for induction, monitoring or caesarean if needed. Bring a knowledgeable support person. A birthkeeper or informed birth partner can help you process information. Look after your emotions. High-risk labels can feel heavy — consider therapy, hypnobirthing, or holistic support to stay calm. Frequently Asked Questions Do I still need a midwife if I hire a birthkeeper? Yes. Birthkeepers are non-clinical. You’ll keep your NHS or private midwife for medical safety. Can I have a home birth if I’m high risk? Sometimes — it depends on the risk factors. We help you understand guidelines and make informed decisions. Will the hospital listen to my preferences if I’m high risk? Yes, but you may need to advocate for yourself. A birthkeeper can help you phrase requests respectfully and assertively. Is holistic care safe in high-risk pregnancies? Yes — it doesn’t replace medical safety. It complements it with emotional, practical and advocacy support. Can I get virtual support if I’m not in London? Yes. Our Virtual Package provides consultations and ongoing care UK-wide. How to Work With Loucina Birthkeeping We help families labelled high risk to feel informed and empowered, not pressured. Book a high-risk consultation — one-to-one guidance for your specific situation. Explore our maternity care packages — Essentials, Premium, Ultimate, Bespoke or Virtual. Secure your due month early — we limit bookings for true continuity. 💛 Being high risk doesn’t mean losing your voice. Get the support you deserve. Book a free discovery call today .
Introduction Pregnancy should feel exciting — yet many parents in London say their NHS maternity care feels rushed, impersonal, and fragmented . Appointments can be short. Different midwives may see you each time. Your birth preferences might get lost in the system. If you’re craving time, personal attention, and care that adapts to your needs , private maternity care can be life-changing. At Loucina Birthkeeping , we provide non-clinical, holistic support for families across London and Croydon , giving you a calm, informed, and empowering journey into parenthood. This guide explains what private maternity care is , how it differs from NHS care, what it costs , and why many parents choose it. What Is Private Maternity Care? Private maternity care means you hire a professional directly to provide tailored support during pregnancy, birth and the postnatal period. It can include: Longer, unhurried appointments where your questions get answered. Continuity of care — the same trusted person throughout your journey. Emotional, practical and advocacy support alongside your NHS or private midwife. Custom packages that suit your birth vision and family needs. Private care can be clinical (private obstetricians, private midwives) or non-clinical (birthkeepers like Loucina who focus on empowerment, advocacy and holistic wellbeing). Why Parents in London Are Choosing Private Maternity Care 1. Time to Talk and Plan NHS appointments can be as short as 10–15 minutes. Private care gives you space to explore fears, hopes, and options so you feel prepared. 2. Consistency and Relationship You know who will show up for you — no shift changes, no strangers. That trust is powerful in labour. 3. Support Beyond Policy Private maternity care helps you understand NHS guidelines and your legal rights , so you can make informed choices — even if your plans differ from hospital policy. 4. Calmer, More Positive Births When you feel safe, respected and informed, your body can labour more effectively. Many families find holistic private support leads to less fear and a calmer birth . 5. Better Postnatal Recovery The early weeks are tough. Private care often includes postnatal visits to help with feeding, emotional wellbeing, and practical support. How Loucina Birthkeeping Provides Private Maternity Care in London & Croydon We specialise in holistic, non-clinical support — perfect for families who want personalised, evidence-based care alongside their NHS midwife or private obstetrician. Our Core Packages Essentials (£2,395) Two antenatal visits, on-call from 38 weeks, full birth support, one postnatal visit, unlimited phone/email/Zoom support. Premium (£2,995) Three antenatal visits, two postnatal visits, access to key educational courses. Ultimate (£3,595) Four antenatal visits, four postnatal visits, birth pool hire , colostrum harvesting guidance, and full access to our online courses. Bespoke & Virtual Options Bespoke Care — create a plan tailored to your needs (extra visits, birth trauma support, or specific preparation). Virtual Package (£1,200) — ideal if you live outside London but still want personalised support online. Location: We’re based in Croydon (South London) and travel up to ~2 hours, serving Greater London, Surrey, Kent, Sussex and parts of the Home Counties. Costs: What to Expect Private maternity care varies depending on what’s included. Typical UK ranges: Birthkeeper / holistic support: ~£1,200 – £3,600 (depending on number of visits, birth attendance, postnatal care). Private midwife: £4,000 – £9,000+ for full clinical care. Private obstetrician: £8,000+ (hospital-based, includes birth but not holistic support). Loucina Birthkeeping’s pricing sits in the mid-range , offering personalised, non-clinical care without the high costs of full private obstetrics. Private Care vs NHS: The Key Differences Appointment Length NHS: ~15 minutes, often rushed. Private: ~60–90 minutes, time to go deep. Continuity NHS: You may see different midwives at every visit and in labour. Private: The same professional throughout. Flexibility NHS: Must follow hospital policies unless you advocate strongly. Private: Your preferences are the focus; we help you navigate or decline policies safely. Postnatal Care NHS: Limited home visits, usually short. Private: Multiple postnatal sessions focused on recovery and feeding. Is Private Maternity Care Safe? Yes. Private non-clinical care like birthkeeping doesn’t replace midwives — it works alongside them. You’ll still have scans, tests and medical monitoring, but with extra time, advocacy and emotional support . Many parents combine: NHS clinical care for safety and monitoring. Private birthkeeping for preparation, advocacy and holistic support. Who Benefits Most From Private Maternity Care? First-time parents wanting in-depth preparation. Those with past traumatic births who need emotional healing and better advocacy. Families with complex decisions (e.g., declining induction, considering home birth). Busy professionals who want convenient, personalised care. Parents with limited local family support who’ll need postnatal help. Real Story: Why Emma Chose Private Care “With my first baby, I felt invisible in the system. Appointments were rushed, and my birth plan wasn’t taken seriously. For my second, I hired Loucina Birthkeeping. The difference was huge — I felt informed, supported, and confident . Even when my plan changed, I stayed calm and understood my options.” — Emma, Croydon How to Start With Private Maternity Care Explore our packages — Essentials, Premium, Ultimate, Bespoke, or Virtual. Book a free discovery call to discuss your needs and ask questions. Secure your spot early — we take a limited number of clients for true continuity. 💛 Want calm, personalised maternity care in London or Croydon? Book a free discovery call today and start planning a birth experience that feels safe and empowering.
Doula or Midwife - The differences. If you’re expecting a baby in London or Croydon , you’ll probably come across a flood of new words while planning your birth. Some of the most confusing? Birthkeeper , doula , and midwife . They’re often used interchangeably, but each describes a different type of support . Understanding what each role does — and what they don’t do — can help you create a birth team that fits your needs and values. At Loucina Birthkeeping , we meet many families who know they want something more personal than the standard maternity system but aren’t sure what kind of help to look for. This guide explains the differences clearly so you can make an informed choice. Why It Matters to Know the Difference Your birth experience can be deeply shaped by who is supporting you . Choosing the right kind of professional isn’t just a nice extra — it can affect: How informed and empowered you feel during pregnancy and labour. The amount of time and attention you receive. Whether your birth plan is respected or quietly overridden. How well you cope if things change or become complicated. Your emotional recovery after birth. Many parents only discover after their first birth that the NHS midwives they saw antenatally might not be the same people present at labour, and that hospital staff may be too stretched to offer personalised attention. Learning the difference between a midwife , doula , and birthkeeper can help you plan ahead and avoid disappointment. What Is a Midwife? A midwife is a clinically trained healthcare professional . In the UK, midwives: Provide routine pregnancy checks — measuring bump growth, checking your blood pressure, running tests. Monitor your baby’s wellbeing. Manage labour and delivery within their scope of practice. Recognise complications and call an obstetrician if needed. Document your care and ensure it meets NHS or private medical guidelines. Midwives are essential for clinical safety . Most parents in London will be assigned an NHS midwife team. Some hire private midwives for more continuity, but even private midwives are primarily focused on the medical aspects of birth . Their time can still be limited by workload or policies. What Is a Doula? A doula is not a medical professional . Instead, they’re trained to give emotional, informational and practical support during pregnancy, birth and the early weeks after your baby arrives. A doula may: Talk you through your birth options and help you write a plan. Offer comfort techniques (breathing, massage, positioning). Stay with you continuously during labour (if allowed by the hospital or birth centre). Support you postnatally with feeding, sleep setup, and emotional recovery. Provide companionship and reassurance when appointments feel rushed. Doulas do not perform medical checks or replace midwives. They’re about care and presence , helping you feel calm and confident. What Is a Birthkeeper? The term birthkeeper is newer in the UK but growing fast, especially among parents looking for more autonomy and personalised care . At its heart, a birthkeeper is a non-clinical maternity professional , similar to a doula but with a stronger focus on advocacy and truly holistic preparation . A birthkeeper will: Spend longer, unhurried time with you during pregnancy — often 90-minute visits instead of rushed appointments. Provide evidence-based information about your rights and options within the maternity system. Help you navigate NHS policies, especially if you want a birth plan outside the “standard” model. Offer continuous emotional and practical support before, during and after birth. Stand beside you if plans change — calmly explaining choices, ensuring you understand consent, and helping you stay in control. At Loucina Birthkeeping , we see our role as walking beside families with compassion, clarity and evidence — so you can reclaim autonomy and feel truly supported from pregnancy through postpartum. How These Roles Work Together Many parents assume they must choose one — but these roles can complement each other beautifully: You’ll always need a midwife for clinical care. You might add a birthkeeper for personalised preparation, advocacy, and emotional support. Some parents use a doula if they mainly want comfort and practical help but aren’t concerned about policy navigation. If you want help after the baby arrives, both doulas and birthkeepers may offer postnatal packages . Think of the midwife as your medical safety net, the birthkeeper as your holistic guide and advocate, and the doula as your comforting companion. Common Misunderstandings Cleared Up “If I have a birthkeeper, I don’t need a midwife.” Not true. Birthkeepers are non-clinical . You still need a midwife or doctor for health checks, monitoring, and legal safety requirements. “Doulas and birthkeepers are the same thing.” They overlap, but birthkeepers usually spend more time on advocacy and informed choice , while some doulas stay more neutral or focus on comfort. “Hiring a birthkeeper means I can’t give birth in hospital.” Completely false. Many of our London clients plan hospital births — they just want someone by their side who knows them and can help them feel heard. “It’s only for home birth.” No. We support home births, birth centre births, inductions, planned caesareans, VBACs (vaginal birth after caesarean) — any path you choose. Choosing the Right Support for You 1. Start With Your Birth Vision Do you imagine a calm, natural birth at home? Or do you know you’ll give birth in hospital but want it to feel personal? Your vision influences whether you need strong advocacy, comfort measures, or mainly medical monitoring. 2. Consider How Much Advocacy You Need If you’re worried about hospital policies or have felt dismissed in past appointments, a birthkeeper may be invaluable. If you mainly want reassurance and comfort, a doula may be enough. 3. Think About Postnatal Life Many families underestimate the first few weeks. If you want hands-on help with baby care, recovery, and emotional wellbeing, look for postnatal doula support or a birthkeeper who offers postnatal packages . 4. Budget and Flexibility NHS midwives are free. Birthkeeping and doula services are private but vary in price. At Loucina, packages start at £2,395 with virtual support from £1,200 — and you can customise with extra postnatal hours or bespoke care. Why Many London Parents Choose a Birthkeeper Time: Appointments that last long enough for real questions. Continuity: The same person from pregnancy through birth and postpartum. Advocacy: Guidance navigating NHS policies and unexpected changes. Calm confidence: Holistic preparation for body and mind. Support beyond birth: Emotional check-ins, feeding help, practical recovery tips. “After feeling unheard with my first baby, I wanted someone on my side. Loucina helped me prepare, explained every option, and was calm and steady through a hospital induction. I felt powerful and informed this time.” — Emma, Croydon Our Services at Loucina Birthkeeping We support families across London, Croydon, Surrey, Kent, Sussex and within about two hours of South London . We also offer virtual support UK-wide . Maternity Care Packages — Essentials, Premium, Ultimate. Bespoke & Virtual Packages — customisable if you want unique support or live far away. Specialised Consultations — high-risk pregnancy, birth trauma healing, birth plan review. Postnatal Doula Care — daytime or overnight help for a smoother fourth trimester. Free Resources — downloadable birth plan templates , checklists, and planning letters. Taking the Next Step 💛 Want support that goes beyond standard maternity care — without giving up safety or evidence? Explore our maternity care packages . Book a free discovery call to chat about your needs. Download our free birth plan template to start planning today. We’re here to help you feel informed, confident, and truly supported — whether you’re planning a hospital, birth centre, or home birth in London, Croydon and beyond .